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[nannerdw]

...GILF....
...after i treat the b**** like a queen for 2 years....

Don't mean to jump to conclusions, but if she still wants to be friends and you're calling her a b**** for it, there was a clear lack of mutual respect in that relationship.
Anyway, congrats for putting it behind you, but just don't burn any bridges.
just my 2¢

[Elements1992]

Felt the EXACT same way when i split with my girlfriend who i was with for 2 years! Never felt so good to be single, and i'm still single now. Partying it up hard while i'm still in my early 20's and playing the field i guess you could say, of course and being single....MORE TIME TO PLAY TRIALS !!!

God, the amount of times i'd turn down going round my girlfriends saying i had family round....When all i wanted to do was load up Trials.

[Retribution]

Don't mean to jump to conclusions, but if she still wants to be friends and you're calling her a b**** for it, there was a clear lack of mutual respect in that relationship.
Anyway, congrats for putting it behind you, but just don't burn any bridges.
just my 2¢

Im not the one who coined her the term GILF. I had tremendous amount of respect for our relationship up until the end. We had our ups and downs but the whole time, i was giving in to her because of the fact that she had to be 'right' all the time. No matter what i said or did, i was still in the wrong so it had to end sometimes, although that wasnt her reason obviously.

Also, do you really think friendship exists after a long serious relationship?

[emcee]

Don't mean to jump to conclusions, but if she still wants to be friends and you're calling her a b**** for it, there was a clear lack of mutual respect in that relationship.
Anyway, congrats for putting it behind you, but just don't burn any bridges.
just my 2¢

Im not the one who coined her the term GILF. I had tremendous amount of respect for our relationship up until the end. We had our ups and downs but the whole time, i was giving in to her because of the fact that she had to be 'right' all the time. No matter what i said or did, i was still in the wrong so it had to end sometimes, although that wasnt her reason obviously.

Also, do you really think friendship exists after a long serious relationship?

She sounds histrionic lol...they steal your voice if you let em...good on ya for putting a stop to that. I'd never worry about being too nice either man..if your a nice guy and you respect your lady etc...and you act any other way then youre just being false and you'll get the same in return...a fast track to disaster.

I could never really maintain a friendship myself....its always too tough. Too much water under the bridge and if your an emotional/sensitive guy its going to hurt when she moves on if its right in your face. I have always tebded to distance myself from them until im over it for real....then see whats up.

[lifeonaboard]

Also, do you really think friendship exists after a long serious relationship?

I would say yes but definitely not in all cases. I went through a pretty rough breakup just over a year ago with the girl I'd been living with for over 5 years. We ended up calling it quits because we couldn't agree where to live. She is an Aussie and I'm Canadian. While we were dating we moved back and forth quite a few times. Live in Canada for the winter snowboarding and then go back to oz while she was doing uni. Originally she was going to try living in Canada for a while after she graduated but she realised she would miss home to much. We both agreed that the other wouldn't be happy settling down in the other country. So last spring she moved back home and I haven't seen her since. There was a few weeks after she left were if we talked we would just end up fighting so we stopped talking for about a month or so. After that we got back to talking normally and we still talk every couple of weeks or so to catch up. We can easily talk about anything and I would say she's still one of my closest friends. Now she's saying she wants to come back this winter. I'm not sure how to feel about it cause I honestly don't have any interest in getting back together but if I did actually see her again it would be very hard to stay away from her. We'll have to see how it all turns out. It should be interesting to say the least. Also Jook is right about women in there late 30's. Rock your world is an understatement, I literally had claw marks on my ***. That night still puts a smile on my face. Being single definitely has it's moments .