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    The search for the one...

    Ok well I am kinda bummed out everytime I go to ask this chick out now... I kind of tense up. I like her but like crazy. She is really funny and she seems really down to earth and I enjoy that! :3

    I dunno why but I think she does like me too, she is always asking what I have been upto and gives me winks, touches my hand. I have never felt this way about any girl i've met with and talked with, naturally I am fine when out with girls and can get on just fine with some and be normal with them and then I feel like I am man about town but for some odd reason I just can't bring myself to ask her out. She is so sweet and it's making me go argh...

    "What the hell?" springs to mind.

    Has this ever happened to you or felt this way?
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    jook13's Avatar Senior Member
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    Re: The search for the one...

    I thought this was gonna be a thread about the Matrix...

    I dont remember the night I met my wife... New years eve. I dont think I was very shy about it though, she got pregnant. I've never had problems about being shy with women, I always used to have beer courage on my side. I'm glad I dont have to worry about that kind of stuff anymore.... booze or meeting girls.
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    Re: The search for the one...

    Cut the foreplay and just ask her, man.
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    Re: The search for the one...

    Originally Posted by jhitman
    Cut the foreplay and just ask her, man.
    I said the same thing kinda....Just go for it Nova. It doesn't hurt. If shes not interested now she won't be...Then atleast you don't gotta waste your time, and can keep looking.

    Good luck!
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    Re: The search for the one...

    For a second I confused you with 4kshadow Ultimately, I don't know if you should go for it. It all depends on how you'll handle a potential rejection (it might not happen). Some people take rejection a lot worse than others. Strong infatuation comes when a person is young; when a person is older they obsess less over a stranger.
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    Re: The search for the one...

    Well put it this way I've never felt like this before, it's strange. Never had any problems before. I am just wondering if it's a psychological thing because of what my previous partner did. :/
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    Re: The search for the one...

    Originally Posted by NovaDarkStorm
    Well put it this way I've never felt like this before, it's strange. Never had any problems before. I am just wondering if it's a psychological thing because of what my previous partner did. :/
    It's probably because it's really important for you.
    I don't know your story but "forget" about your ex! The girl you're speaking about should be totally different.
    GO for it! Otherwise, you'll stay friends and you'll regret not to have asked her out.
    Kind words never hurt and honesty is appreciated.

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    Re: The search for the one...

    Stop being dumb and just ask her....
    What's the worst case scenario... see says no.. boo hoo. At least u won't wonder anymore
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    Re: The search for the one...

    If she touches you then she's definitely flirting with you. I once obsessed over a person beyond what you have described. It didn't end well (kind of like all of my experiences with the real world).
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    Re: The search for the one...

    Well peeps I did it, I went to her at my breaktime! She was absolutely shocked... She said "I like you Harry, but I've just been struggling with my exams and eveything, I don't know wether I can be committed just yet." I gave her my number and she blushed. :3

    She was smiling all the time and her workmate was just like wow. Can't believe I did it but if she messages me. Big yay!
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