This has been an issue for the longest time and it really needs some proper attention. These compensation packs are nice n all but I'd rather just have it fixed, Its incredibly frustrating and it just demotivates me to continue playing. It happened again just now, the same old message "servers are taking longer to respond than expected". And after that, nothing has happened. Besides the menus glitching and not showing the game modes on the multiplayer map no matter what i tried. Had to restart the the game.
I hope the devs find the time to fix these issues in the near future, since they are currently also looking into improving the matchmaker. (And creating new amazing content ofcourse!)