There was no offence in my post at all. I just wondered why people open a thread stating they "leave", then come back a few days later. Has a taste of "didnt mean it serious" and "attention", especially his comments in his thread made it clear that he is serious and wont come back. He even told a guy that said "cya later" that he should read his post again and that he only made a thread to tell people some other people have to do the Recap. Turned out the guy was kinda right, eh? Still he got "flamed". I dont like this behaviour.
People should be more reliable in their statements. If you say "I'm calling it quits here." you should not come back 1 day later imo
I considered responding via PM, but since you responded here publicly, I felt it only fair to respond in kind.
Perhaps my "I'm Out" thread could have been worded more clearly, perhaps I should have formulated a better post, but I didn't think such clarification was needed, nor did I believe I'd receive admonishment for complimenting another member on reacting to an actual consequence of my thread when no one else would.
But all of this is pointless. I, like all other members, have the right to post my thoughts here, without getting admonished or told-off through ad-hominen attack posts. You're polite enough, sure, but your post essentially calls me out as attention seeking, while suggesting I'm not to post here ever again, by virtue of 1 vague statement I made.
That guy you refer to, did not simply say "cya later", he also called me out as being attention seeking, dismissing everything I'd written out of hand. He was addressed by several other members in the same manner in which he addressed me, which was not the most polite manner one could have done it. But even UbiJurassic stepped in to correct him, in favor of me, that's sort of telling.
He also apologized for his remarks, which I accepted.
That guy was not right, as he assumed my thread was entirely self-serving and attention seeking, just like you're doing now.
I will not apologize for thanking Candle for accepting the responsiblity I left behind in a timely manner you find unbecoming, and just like everyone else, I'm free to post here as frequently, or infrequently, as I want, free from accusations about my personal motivations for doing so.
Saying you meant no offense, does not excuse you from offenses then perceived.
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