So I *****ed and moaned, not about balance, but these damn connection issues. I tried to defend you, and in a perfect world your P2p system might work, but in practice its fcking terrible. We've all given you feedback. We've all told you to get dedicated servers. You aren't doing that, so I'm refunding. I might buy the game again, if you fix it, but you won't so there's that.
Good luck
Sincerely,
A pissed off customer, one of millions.