One of the fastest ways to have people to play with is to jump into a clan/community. They are not all bad. In fact if you were to shop around more I am sure you would find one that is open to playing with you. I used to jump from group to group but the problem is that if one or two of the group are not on then you're already down 1/4 or half a squad. In a community you can join with more people dedicated to the game. So why are you anti-clan?